Ah, the big question.
Destiny: This is one of those words that carries so much meaning behind it, we don’t really know how to completely explain it.
But what really is destiny? Typically, when we imagine we have a destiny, we see ourselves accomplishing grand things. Saving princesses, slaying dragons, and quitting your miserable job to start a company that becomes so successful, your mean old boss begs to work for you. Fame and butt loads of money roll in, of course. Sure, saving a princess sounds very cut and dry. Difficult, but easy to grasp the concept of. Find princess. Save said princess from evil _____. Tada! All done.
But destiny, real destiny, isn’t like that. It’s entirely possible that a person might come across a situation in which it becomes clear that there is a task to complete and it is important. Life is a beautiful, and painful, variety of things. And things most certainly happen. However, in most cases, for most people, real true destiny is in the small moments. In the magnificence of the every day.
Destiny is a very strange thing.
And this destiny is not a 100% blueprint of our life. Rather it's like a rough sketch.
Destiny is flexible.
It's not that every moment is destined ,preplanned. Rather, some moments in our life are planned by the almighty or the mother nature.
It's our choice whether to take those moments properly or not.
Destiny is like some pre-drawn points on the canvas. But what you will do with those points depends on you.
Use your own color, your own imagination and fill up the whole canvas -- that's your life. Now, the output is picture perfect only if you choose your points perfectly with perfect color. Otherwise, the frame is always incomplete no matter how much colorful or attractive it is from outside.
Therefore: Our achievements are determined by our efforts. Our efforts is therefore our destiny ... Whether they are the past or the present efforts, it is the stronger ones that determine our destiny. Each one is allowed to create his/her own destiny in this world.
But please also keep in mind that ALL OF US WILL DIE IN THE END ANYWAY! SO DONT WORY ABOUT DESTINY. MAKE THE MOST OUT OF YOUR LIFE.